Nate and I rang in the new year last night playing Mario Kart and Mario Galaxy on our new Wii we got for Christmas (thanks Dana and Walter!). Natalie and Amy were at a sleepover at Grammy and Papa’s and Lindsey was thankfully asleep in her bed. It was very nostalgic for us since we used to stay up late playing video games on our Nintendo 64 before we had children.
This morning I caught up on some TV shows while Nate continued playing Wii. Nate commented that it was so strange to have all this “free” time and that it was nice to have that before having children. I agreed. I DO miss those lazy Saturdays (I know today isn’t Saturday, but it felt like it) where we would sleep in, stay in our jammies all day, play video games, and watch movies. Sometimes, I’ll admit, I REALLY miss those days.
But as we went to my parents to spend the day with them and reconnect with Natalie and Amy, I realized how boring my life would be in comparison to what I have today. My children our such an incredible gift from the Lord. Even though there are many days where I am tired and emotionally maxed out, I wouldn’t trade them for just one Saturday to myself. Before children, our lives were all about us. Now our life is about our family. And one day our children won’t be home and we will have those lazy Saturdays…and miss the laughter and presence of our children.
In 2008, some dear friends of mine lost their 4 year old daughter and another dear friend of mine lost her 33 year old husband. I hope I can embrace the wonderful gifts God has given me…because we never know when God will call anyone of us home. And I hope to enjoy my chaotic Saturdays!









